) the problem came when she would always call me when she wanted some, but then on a night when I'd call her up i'd get shot down. I got sick of that after a while.
[PCE said:el_Prez]I had a fuck buddy once. It was pretty cool, she was too obnoxious for a relationship (plus she wasn't the best looking
You'd be surprised how many women are willing to go along with it. We sometimes forget that they have needs too. I've had five in my lifetime, and honestly I've never been one to know that many people, so I'm drawing from a small pool. Truth is though, it depends on the woman and of course whether or not there is an attraction. Sometimes I get stuck in the, "I love you like a brother" situation but then while she won't date me she'll still fuck me. Who knew? Ex-girlfriends who you stay friends with after your breakup are usually the easiest to convince, in my experience. There's often still residual feelings there and if you handle it right you can cash in on them. Of course one of them didn't appreciate it and I lost her as a friend after a while. Honestly, women know how much we think about sex and if you suggest it to her, she should realize that it's just in our nature and hopefully if you get rejected she'll not think less of you. Just don't persist too much about it if you want to keep her as a friend. The best time is when she herself is sexually frustrated, like when she hasn't dated in a while or when she's horny but doesn't want the headache of a boyfriend. You just suggest it as a mutual solution to your predicaments, and if it gets too weird you call it off. You have to be prepared though, feelings may develop and you could lose her as a friend, or possibly gain her as more. It's all a gamble, and women know this and often aren't willing to risk what you already have. That itself is the biggest wall, but it's all about timing, how you word it, how well you read her, and a little luck. And be prepared to have an exit strategy in case it doesn't work out.
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