Oh no I'm completely open about it. Basically my second year of college I moved into an apartment with a few people I thought were my friends. To greatly abridge the story, the treated me like shit so I found a proxy to buy me beer and wine and descended into alcoholism. Stopped going to class. Was a mess.
Then I ended up going home for a weekend and while I was at home learned that my best friend got a restraining order against me, and that I was suspended interim. So I had to go to both the school and police and defend myself; it was a pretty interesting experience being led in cuffs to the dean's office tbh
But anyways, it turned out that my best friend had accused me of rape; I never have and never would hurt her in any way, even now. But that was her story. She said she had 10 pages of evidence against me; I went back through our friendship's history and gathered 80. After compiling evidence we pushed for an extension to the court date so I could go to a hospital
While there I was misdiagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia and started meds for the first time in my life. See, I'd started hearing voices freshman year of high school. And in 5 years that friend was the only one I'd told about it. She used it as evidence as to why she was afraid. So anyways, I started meds for the first time in my life and the voices gradually went away
After that, I went to court for the criminal charges, and was acquitted. After that I went to outpatient, where I took a detailed psych eval and was correctly diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and an "unknown psychotic disorder". My meds changed, and soon after I went to court for the restraining order. Judge threw the case out.
Seriously, the false rape allegations? For fucks sake, is it like a autonomous reaction for some women? At least you got out of it without undeserved jailtime, if anything. For what it counts, I'm sorry you went through all that. I hope you can pick yourself up from this man.
Doing my best, you know? I just wish I knew why she did it. I loved her so much; and even now I know she's hurting, and if I knew how to help her I would.