Courier said:
I think you guys might be misinterpreting the Yes Man ending. By "more assertive" he meant that not any random guy can walk up to him and tell him what to do like you did, he'll still serve you but he won't serve anyone else. If Benny had installed this assertiveness feature then you wouldn't have been able to take control of Yes Man.
Sorry but you are deluding yourself. I too tried to convince myself of this but, i'm sorry to say, it is an entirely unconvincing delusion. The way Yes man puts it leaves little doubt in my mind.
'I didn't wanna make a big deal of this until AFTER we won but, well... I found some code snippets in Mr. Houses data banks that will let me... UM... reprogram my personality. To be a little more assertive basically'
.....HMMMMMMMM, now his enthused tone of voice suddenly sounds incredibly patronising and sarcastic. All of his hesitation and ums are because he is now 'letting you down gently'. Then comes the bit that really shows the delusion for what it is and can only be interpreted as Yes man giving you the brush off.
'I... I... guess i'll see you around!'
Now come on, does that sound like he is your loyal servant and you are the boss of vegas, or does it sound like you've just been dumped?
'We accomplished a lot together, it was fun... take care!'
Seriously, you are never gonna see Yes Man again and you will be having no say whatsoever in the running of New Vegas. It isn't really open to interpretation, you've been suckered, end of story. IT was fun, take care? That is him giving you short shrift and saying thanks and so long. I tried to kid myself that it wasn't the case, surely Obsidian haven't just done that to me? Sorry but this ending leaves you with no power and you are apparently punished for working towards your own goals and trying to take power for yourself.
You're left with nothing really but minor recognition that you helped Vegas get a shallow form of independence, though not really independent because it is run by a robot dictator. Probably only independent until the NCR return in force with pulse guns, grenades etc. and takes out the securitrons. A deeply unsatisfying ending.
This time in my second play through i'm storming the Mojave with the bear, for the Republic! I want nothing more than the NCR flag flying from the Vegas strip.