Paladin- I actually appreciate that you have been posting here, even if I don't agree with you.
Free speech is not about "correct speech" or even "uncontroversial speech" but basically about getting people's passions up, getting them engaged and a little pissed off. This is why the Greeks believed the best speech was hot and emotional, and sometimes drunk- in vito veritas (in wine comes truth).
However, some of that can get a bit extreme, and it's easy to piss a person off so they don't want to come back. That's not good either. So some civility helps. But so far, it has been pretty civil.
However, your positions do invite some criticism- I think partly because you could step basic from your preconceived notions and consider them a bit more.
A few people have commented, I think it was Murdoch, that part of this is for "constructive debate" rather than 'winning'.
The success of a good argument is by convincing the other person whom who are arguing against that your position is more convincing than his- to accept your argument as valid. If not that, at least that it has some merit.
But if you argue with a person so much that the person says,"fuck I don't want to waste time with you anymore" than neither side wins. You don't because the person is not convinced and probably thinks your an asshole. But the other person also feels like they have wasted their time and is frustrated.
Staying dogmatic about a position past good good argument is just closed minded, and there is little point to go on in the discussion.
It's a different attitude, more about having a dialogue than an argument. But to share ideas you have to be able to listen and mull things over.
Not everything is answered in a logical or rational way. Some issues are moral issues.
But one needs to think about both the moral and the logical issues.
King/Paladin- You often come into arguments like a bull in china shop. Take it easy and think about things a bit. I am not saying you are necessarily wrong, but others often have opinions too from different perspectives. Listen to the perspective and consider it before responding.