I think I am going to steal fart-kin. Too good to pass up. Also, good post @Hassknecht. My cousin is married to a transgender man. Her husband, Anders, is a good man. I respect him and me and my family always refer to him by male pronouns. He treats my cousin with love and respect. Couldn't ask for my cousin to have a better partner. What worries me with him is that he wants to go through the full transition surgery. I just worry that it won't be the be all end all that he was hoping for. If he does go through with it I hope he is happy with the results. Sadly it sometimes isn't with some people who are trans.