It started out as kind of a question about how to turn that feature off, but it's become an interesting discussion about Windows alternatives, something I would very much like to know about, without having to tread into arrogant nerd-heavy Linux forums.
when i couldn't take it anymore i installed Ubuntu, without knowing much about Linux. I just read some entries on wikipedia and decided to install ubuntu in parallel with windows. After i reinstalled windows on the other drive, i couldn't boot in ubuntu no more. I still can't. So i have 14 Gb of unused ubuntu on my hd and no idea on how to access it. Took me 3 to 4 days to install all the components in ubuntu (again, i had no help, so i just looked through some forums), finally i got tired to search endlessly for documentation on various programs. I still miss that operating system because it worked just fine. It was just really annoying sometimes.