Nope. No one's critiqueing characters because they are gay, or any kind of sexuality, or diversity. This is just not true. I know you guys keep repeating it, but it is completely false.
You wanted me to point out how you fail to understand the points raised. This is the perfect example. Sander did not write that people are criticizing (by the way, that's the verb you were looking for) are characters because they belong to a minority. Neither did I.
We wrote that people hold characters to different standards depending on whether they're the Default Character (white, straight, male or the obligatory love interest) or deviate from that archetype:
straight white dudes are "allowed" to just be shittily written, but when a character deviates from that and is still shittily written, suddenly it's tokenism or shoehorning or whatever the fuck bullshit instead of just more bad writing.
The point was that people like TB force double standards on games. Anything that's not white, straight, and male (or the mandatory female love interest, because the world owes you women) must be well written or it's tokenism. It's this insane double standard that perpetuates the mandatory quotas of Default Character (white, straight, male) game appearances.
You're responding to what you imagine we're saying, not what we actually say. That's why you're being called ignorant. That's why you are being told that you do not understand the points being raised.