Loxley said:
, as my former English teacher said, "if you got an american that is convinced that he is right, telling him that he is wrong is useless." SO in other words there is no way any one here can convince gwyndion that he is wrong...The same thing goes for weslh, "
Me and my scuba diver class is going scuba diving with killerwhales in a few weeks, and i`m soooo looking forward to it. I think it will be a blast.
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OUch! Actually the point of dialogue is to share ideas, and perhaps convince another person that your argument is better. WIthout that, there is no point in dialogue. Actually Gwydion has forced me to take a look at certain issues a second time, and while I overall disagree with him, I have seen some merit in a few of his arguments. But I will leave that for the gun control debate.
Point here, you can only be convinced if you are willing to listen and if the person you are arguing against can make a better case.
Otherwise, the point of argument is useless.
I'd like to think I could be convinced- provided a good enough argument was raised. I have my doubts about Gwydion, to be honest, but I think that's more a matter of age and rhetorical style. Young guys want to "win" arguments, not to discuss. Having a dialogue is not a war. You win nothing if the other side capitulates when he or she figures out that there is a stalemate that is unwinnable. IF the person walks away unconvinced and pissed off, you lose. You win by sharing ideas and rethinking through real problems. THis way the dialogue continues, and the sharing and thus both parties win.
To a certain extent Gwydions argument above was normative, I responded with empirics- two different types of argument.
ANd Scuba rules. Go for it. Is this your first Open Water? I am trying to do advanced, but need to find my NAUI card. Are you doing it NAUI or PADI?
Make sure you have a dry suit or you will freeze your ass off. Also don't bring shiney objects or swim too close to the Killer whales. Even if they aren't aggressive (and I can think of no attacks by killer whales except at Sea World) you could be badly injured with a flip of the tale. Also watch out, where there are killer whales there are often seals and otters, and where there are seals and otters, there are big sharks that aren't so discriminating.