Gay marriage

Gay Marriages should be allowed-

  • No- Marriage is something gays should not be allowed to enjoy. Gays are unfit for the purpose of mar

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  • Yes- Marriage is more than a sacrament, but a civil right of family that everyone is entitled too re

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  • Yes- Marriage is about love and the right to love who you want, and therefore is an expression of th

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  • Who cares? Frankly, marriage is an out-dated concept anyway.

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  • Who cares? Frankly I don't care what you suck as long as I don't have to smell your breath

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  • Total voters
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Gwydion said:
So... You're making the claim that Catholic doctrine condones homosexual behaviour?

No, I wouldn't go that far (since my claim was that homosexual marriage would fulfill the aspect of love). Catholic doctrine feels that homosexuality is a perversion of sex since it defeats the purpose of reproduction. However, that is not to see that Catholics condemn homosexuals either. My theology teacher, who is also an ordained priest, said something rather profound about this issue: "You can abhor the sin without abhorring the sinner". God punishes Cain for murdering his brother but he doesn't turn his back on him; he places his mark on his forehead and protects him.

Doctrine can change, too. We seem adamant on the issue of refusing gay marriages or women priests. But, who knows, somewhere along the line, that may change. After all, we don't have to eat fish every Friday, right?
 
Gunslinger said:
No, I wouldn't go that far (since my claim was that homosexual marriage would fulfill the aspect of love).

... Not "that far?" So, you don't believe homosexual behaviour is explicity disallowed; you think it's only sinful because it serves no reproductive purpose? Is that right?

I'm trying to understand the point you're making here. As far as I can tell, no one said anything contrary to what you're saying. I think it's odd that you would tell someone that he lacks understanding of the Catholic faith given these circumstances.

After all, we don't have to eat fish every Friday, right?

Technically, you're still supposed to be doing some form of penance every Friday. Not eating meat is a classic example.
 
I was born Mormon, but consider myself to be an Orthodox-sympathizer, which means I am to lazy for a baptisim.

Oddly enough, early on Christanity was quite tolerant towards gays. For instance, the emporer Valens, who was a very superstitious man, decided to lay a mustard seed under one of three chairs for three of his favored advisors. However two of them sat in the same chair as they where fairly well known for being in love. Theodosius also sat in the wrong chair.

Alot of the stigma around Homosexuality can be traced to the Byzantine Dark ages (as can be many things, like the stigma around abortion and sodomy), thru the inlfuence of Islam.
 
Craprunner, don't even try to blame homophobia on Islam, because that argument wouldn't last 15 seconds in this forum. Just wait til that KSM dude from Cairo gets a hold of you...
Be afraid. Be very afraid.

--Trom the Baron von Boner
 
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Who says the commitment of between a gay couple is less intense than between a hetero couple?
 
Not at all. I was saying that Islam was responsible for the Dark Ages in a certain part of the world, and that the lack of affluency hurt social progress.
 
The gays were hurt enough with the holocaust, along with the Jews....We owe this to them, not because it's right, just because we owe them a favor....
 
ConstinpatedCraprunner said:
Not at all. I was saying that Islam was responsible for the Dark Ages in a certain part of the world, and that the lack of affluency hurt social progress.

Well, it would help if you specified that "certain part", for one, since as far as I knew the fall of the Roman Empire was responsible for the Dark Ages.

Define your terms, Craprunner: whose "affluency" are you referring to? What do you mean by "social progress"?

--Trom the Baron von Boner
 
The former Byzantine Empire, including Egypt and Syria. These where the two most economically and culturally important areas in the Empire. When they where lost, the Empire turned to Christian fundementalism.

It did have a VERY negative effect on Christanity. It basically eradicated it through a millinea of slaveship in it's heartland, and it started both Iconoclasm and the punishment of adulturey and abortion, both of which where legal before the Dark Ages and the influence of Islam.
 
Gwydion said:
... Not "that far?" So, you don't believe homosexual behaviour is explicity disallowed; you think it's only sinful because it serves no reproductive purpose? Is that right?

I'm trying to understand the point you're making here. As far as I can tell, no one said anything contrary to what you're saying. I think it's odd that you would tell someone that he lacks understanding of the Catholic faith given these circumstance.

My point was already made: to show the "religious fanatics" that using that mentality as a face doesn't really pan out since there's evidence in the Bible that supports a marriage of love. The only disapproval of homosexuality in the Bible is the incident of Sodom which is more of a condemnation of carnal desires.

I think you're reading too far into my post, Gwydion. Personally, I find nothing wrong with homosexuals. I do not find it sinful; I have not said it was sinful. I said that Catholic doctrine finds it sinful because sex is meant for reproduction, not that *I* find it sinful because they are not fulfilling the obligation to spawn more kids.

What bearing this has on the original discussion, that of gay marriages, I do not know. I feel that you are seeking out fragments of my statements and then attacking. Before, in response to King and CCR "religious fanaticism", I had used Biblical references to show that homosexuals fulfill the love commitment of marriage and that marriage (and sex) is not solely for the matter of procreation. Then you asked if Catholics condoned homosexuality, which I responded by saying they do not and that doctrine changes. Now you're asking me if I personally have qualms over homosexuality, which I do not.

Or maybe you just didn't read my posts entirely.
 
Gunslinger said:
Or maybe you just didn't read my posts entirely.

Don't kid yourself, Gunslinger. Your initial post was completely illogical. Till you brought it up, no one said anything about Catholicism in this thread, and every single post of mine since has been trying to understand the position you're taking, since it started so poorly. It's not about attacking you at all, it's about trying to figure out what the fuck you're talking about.
 
If someone wants to be gay, let them be gay, it is not like it's going to make you have a mental breakdown or anything, now is it? Just get on with you life. Simple, isn't it?
 
I find it extremely interesting that people who say that homosexuality is a sin(And they have a right to say that), then say that noone should be allowed to be a homosexual. While they need not condone it, they don't need to restrict those people from doing what they like. Equality is the greatest good in the modern world, and allowing people to be equal doesn't hurt YOU.
 
ConstinpatedCraprunner said:
Not at all. I was saying that Islam was responsible for the Dark Ages in a certain part of the world, and that the lack of affluency hurt social progress.

Aye, aye, right you are, CC.

That said, though, the islam had little to do with the Western European dark ages, and certainly not with those of the British Isles, the Kingdom of France, the Holy Roman Empire and the Baltic states.

And to claim those Christian states were not anti-homo is ludicrous at best, and would be like denying they're anti-semetical.

They were anti-semites. They were homophobes. It comes with being poor.

Obviously there were some enlightened minds that thought otherwise. These minds probably didn't go with the witch huntings of the Renaissance either, but they do not represent the common rabble.

To say "Christianity was tolerant" and then name an emperor as an example is really a pretty damn false argument.

Regardless of what the emperor did, homosexuality was punisheable by death (often by torture) in pretty much all Christian countries from their start to "modern times". And this has *nothing* to do with the islam. I know blaming the islam for stuff like this is your pet peeve, but in this case it just doesn't work.
 
Except, as I have proven, in the Byzantine Empire, the foundation of Christiantiy, for the first 400 years of it's foundation. It might have been a crime, but so was sodomy in the US until a few months ago.......does that make some parts in the US as bad as the Dark Ages?
 
I don't think anyone in here said noone should be homosexual Sander. I wouldn't care. But I know a saying, "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." We were talking about this yesterday in class, and we have this kid who is really, I mean really touchy when it comes to religion. He is an anarchist by the way, and hates Christianity and Judiasm. Well, we were talking about gay marriages, and the majority of our class said it shouldn't be allowed and those judges need to get their asses back in line, and this one girl comments, "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve," and that boy who is touchy, yelled "HEY!" He started to silently swear and looked really pissed and was staring at that girl the whole class. I thought he was going to kill her! The whole class couldn't stop laughing. It was frikin hilarious.
 
King said:
I don't think anyone in here said noone should be homosexual Sander. I wouldn't care. But I know a saying, "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve." We were talking about this yesterday in class, and we have this kid who is really, I mean really touchy when it comes to religion. He is an anarchist by the way, and hates Christianity and Judiasm. Well, we were talking about gay marriages, and the majority of our class said it shouldn't be allowed and those judges need to get their asses back in line, and this one girl comments, "God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve," and that boy who is touchy, yelled "HEY!" He started to silently swear and looked really pissed and was staring at that girl the whole class. I thought he was going to kill her! The whole class couldn't stop laughing. It was frikin hilarious.

note the quote comes from the self-confessed current NMA idiot on the board.

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King, read the comic. Think about it. Share it with your colleagues in grade school. Try to learn the moral lesson and hope that the wolfs and other predators haven't caught your scent yet.

An yes, another article from the Economist exactly on this topic. Damn these guys are smart. (King, take careful notes from smart people).

Gay marriage

State of the union

Nov 20th 2003 | BOSTON AND WASHINGTON, DC
From The Economist print edition

A Massachusetts court starts a national debate that poses problems for both the Republicans and the Democrats

ON NOVEMBER 18th, the Massachusetts Supreme Court ensured that gay marriage would be a galvanising issue in the 2004 election. By a four-to-three majority, the court ruled that a ban on same-sex marriage violates the state's constitution. “The right to marry means little,” the court declared, “if it does not include the right to marry the person of one's choice.”

Gay-rights groups described the decision as a “landmark”. Conservatives were furious. “We must amend the [federal] constitution,” announced Tony Perkins, head of the Family Research Council, “if we are to stop a tyrannical judiciary from redefining marriage to the point of extinction.”

The ruling was a significant advance on the most liberal regime so far. In 1999, the high court in another north-eastern state, Vermont, decided that same-sex couples were entitled to marriage-like benefits and protections, but it did not require them to be eligible for marriage licences, thus paving the way for the state's famed “civil unions” which the then governor, Howard Dean, signed into law in 2000.

There are some legal experts who think that the language of this week's ruling from Massachusetts is vague enough to permit a similar compromise “civil-union” solution. But they are in a minority. The ruling makes no mention of a legal equivalent and seems to require the legislature to permit gay marriage outright. The decision was written by Chief Justice Margaret Marshall, a former anti-apartheid campaigner, with the bold, confident tone of someone who knows she is making history. She gave the state legislature a short 180 days to take the steps “it may deem appropriate in light of this opinion”.

The ramifications stretch far beyond Massachusetts. In 1996, Bill Clinton signed the federal Defence of Marriage Act, which defined marriage as being between a man and a woman. If Massachusetts allows gay marriage it will start a legal battle that will surely have to be decided by the Supreme Court. The ruling also challenges similar defence-of-marriage laws in 37 states. For instance, a gay couple, married in Boston who moved to Dallas, could claim they were being denied equal protection under the constitution.

Whatever the legislature does next spring, opponents will have trouble blocking it. Governor Mitt Romney, a Republican, has vowed to fight for a constitutional amendment, defining marriage as the union of a man and a woman. But the soonest an amendment could be legally enacted is 2006. Many gay couples are already celebrating with glee, exchanging marriage proposals and popping champagne. “I'm proud to reside in a state whose constitution is so enlightened,” said state Senator Jarrett Barrios, one of a handful of openly gay state lawmakers.

One reason why some gay leaders have argued that civil unions offer a more pragmatic solution than marriage is the fear of a backlash. This is now happening. The ruling was denounced by Boston's new archbishop, Sean O'Malley. Despite its liberal reputation, the Massachusetts legislature has proved a tough laboratory for gay-rights issues. A bill to provide benefits for domestic partners of gay state workers has repeatedly stalled.

At the national level, the gay-marriage issue poses profound problems for both parties. The Democrats have the more immediate challenge. They do not want the 2004 election to be fought on the sort of cultural terrain that has proved so treacherous for their party over the past 30 years. Most Americans regard marriage as essentially a religious institution: more than 80% of them are married in a religious ceremony, and most religious institutions are opposed to marrying gay couples.

Gay marriage could provide the Republicans with a powerful lever to pry away working-class voters from the Democratic cause. Battleground states such as Ohio have been hard hit by the loss of manufacturing jobs, but they tend to be culturally conservative. It will also rally the Republican base. According to a new poll by the Pew Research Centre, Republicans oppose gay marriage by a ratio of more than five to one. In the 2000 election, some 4m Evangelical Christians stayed at home (which, argue Mr Bush's supporters, was one reason why the result was a draw). Gay marriage could be just the issue to make sure such folk turn up at the polls.

By contrast, likely Democratic voters are more divided on the issue: 39% support marriage rights and 52% oppose them. The more liberal wing of the party includes powerful interest groups such as Human Rights Campaign that regard gay marriage as the civil-rights issue of our time, and will not tolerate any fudging on the subject. But at the same time a quarter of all Democratic-leaning voters say that they “strongly” oppose gay marriage, including many blacks, southerners, old people and working-class voters. It would be hard to invent an issue better designed to divide elite liberals from Joe Sixpack.

The Democratic presidential contenders are already distancing themselves from the Massachusetts decision. The only candidates who have given their unconditional support are the no-hopers: Carol Moseley-Braun, Dennis Kucinich and Al Sharpton (who says that he would proudly perform a same-sex marriage ceremony). Wesley Clark, Dick Gephardt and John Kerry all oppose gay marriage, but support civil unions. John Edwards, Joe Lieberman and Dr Dean all oppose gay marriage and argue that states should decide whether to approve civil unions. Tom Daschle, the Democratic leader in the Senate, responded to the Massachusetts ruling by saying that he believed that the federal Defence of Marriage Act would pass constitutional muster.

Tomorrow's question
Yet the gay-marriage debate is far from risk-free for the Republicans. Most Americans may be against giving homosexuals the blessing of full marriage, but they are also uncomfortable with anything that smacks of intolerance. Polls show that around half the public think that gay couples should have the legal right to adopt children, and more than half think that they should have the same legal rights as married heterosexual couples when it comes to health benefits and inheritance.

To the distress of social conservatives, the White House has been making conciliatory noises to gay groups. George Bush will no doubt try to appear as tolerant as possible while drawing the line at gay marriage. But some of his supporters will be less than diplomatic. The Christian right speaks of a “homosexual agenda” that is designed to destroy the most fundamental human institution. Protesters have followed Dr Dean with posters that claim that “God hates fag enablers” and other less printable phrases.

Looking further into the future it is easy to see how such intolerance could cost the Republicans dear. The proportion of people who say that homosexual relations are “not wrong at all” has tripled, from 12% in 1973 to 32% today. Leading politicians such as Dick Cheney and Mr Gephardt have openly gay children. Openly gay characters pop up in sitcoms and movies. About half of Americans under 30 say they favour the legal right to gay marriage compared with only 22% among the over-65s. The Massachusetts decision will not only resound around the land in the 2004 presidential debate. Its echo will be carried for many years to come.
 
Ok Welsh, if you must insult me just to make yourself feel high and mighty and better about yourself, go ahead. You know, I'd like to know exactly what I have done to be labeled an idiot. The only thing that I have done to deserve such things is when I posted that thread and didn't have proof to back it up. Sorry about that, my mistake. I am learning. But what have I done to be labeled and idiot. Really. Unless that's something welsh throws out there just because he no longer has any arguing points or something. I say welsh, because most of the insults come from him. I think.

EDIT- Hi this is Welsh- I am intervening here because I don't want to ruin a good thread with a tangential response to King.

But in response-
King said:
I Why am I an idiot now? What have I done?
King said:
Well I have no idea what I have done to be called an idiot but oh well.

Ok, so you're right, you were not a self-professed idiot, although acts speak louder than words. Also if you go back to the Osama/Hitler/Sadam/mussolini thread- you will find that more than a few people have raised this issue.
It is also true that, had this been the old NMA, you'd be fried by now. But it's not. These are the days of a more friendly, happier NMA.

So you're right. I am picking on you and I shouldn't. I apologize. Really. Here's the thing.

King, look, people are busting on you because you post like an idiot- which is why people think you're an idiot. This is, in fact, your fault.

There are a lot of folks who post on NMA, and who post regularly and engage in either light banter or intellectual conversations. I know that's a bit beyond you. I mean, what, you are 12-13 years old, right? Maybe you are in over your head. Ok, listen, think.

One gets respect by earning it. Not demanding it, and not by expecting it. People are going to judge you by what you post, how thoughtful you are, how you shape your opinions, and how well you engaged the conversation.

One gets respect here by thinking about what has been written, thinks it over, and responds.

Sure there's a lot of bullshitting too, but generally it's a thoughtful exchange.

You are bullshitting too much, and throwing out shit. In other words, you come off like a 12 year old kid who hasn't thought about much.

If you want respect, you have to earn it.
 
Tromboner999 said:
LoOzrat, the fine film you are referring to is "Happy Campers", featuring Brad Renfro, who also appeared in the terrible film "Deuces Wild".

Now I do believe props are in order...?

--'Boner
Yep, and props you shall get.

Props!
 
Gwydion said:
Don't kid yourself, Gunslinger. Your initial post was completely illogical. Till you brought it up, no one said anything about Catholicism in this thread, and every single post of mine since has been trying to understand the position you're taking, since it started so poorly. It's not about attacking you at all, it's about trying to figure out what the fuck you're talking about.

Well, I thought I made myself clear on the issue but I'm sure that if there is a problem, it's mutual because I don't really understand what we are arguing about.

I've already stated Catholic doctrine on homosexuality, the reason why homosexuals are barred for marriage, explanation on how homosexuals aren't portrayed as evil in the Bible, evidence that homosexuals merit (to a slight degree) marriage, and my own personal belief on the issue.

All this has bearing towards the original topic discussion. One of the options for voting, after all, is that marriage is a religious sacrament. Someone (I think King or CCR) said that they believed marriage was a holy sacrament meant only for a man and a woman. My position (directed towards them) is that, true, marriage is but also that homosexuals still merit some ideals of marriage and that doctrine may change.
 
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