If I say "Alright guys, there is going to be ice cream cake available at Zyax's place real soon." And then there isn't any ice cream fun times to be had, and I tell everyone that "I'm oh so disappointed that Zyax chose not to give you all ice cream cake" it's not your fault. It's my fault because I'm the one who made the promise. The onus is on me. Is any of this getting through?