Ilosar
Vault Fossil
I think there is some truth in it afterall, gamers are kinda dissapearing. What gamers love to snidely call as casuals is slowly but steadily becoming the standart. And I think its a good evolution. Because honestly, when I am looking at this so called "gamer culture" and its excesses, I am not sure if I want to be a part of that.
I'm going to have to agree here.
The whole concept of ''Gamer'' has always irked me. You don't see people who read books going ''I'm a Reader''. People who go to the theater don't define themselves by it (most of the time). Going to watch a film doesn't make you a ''Movie-goer''. You're just a person who reads. Who watches movies. So on and so forth. If what defines you is your hobby, well... I won't say ''get a life'' or stupid stuff like that, but it sounds weird to me. I've never defined myself as a ''Gamer'', and I play games a lot, hell probably a bit too much sometimes.
I vehemently disagree with what you say here. If you are really into something there are often times words that you can use to express how much you like your hobby. I've seen this argument brought up and it boggles my mind. Ever heard of a book worm?
The definition of bookworm is someone who spends a lot of time reading or studying.
Well, that makes sense. That person does that thing a lot, so they are more dedicated to the act of reading than others. Hmmmm...
Audiophile?Cinephile/Film buff?? See where I'm going with this? I tell people I'm a film buff since I watch movies over and over, learning everything about how they were made, who played in what, etc.. It's easier to say "I'm a film buff" as opposed to "I watch, collect, and over-analyze every movie you have ever heard of as a hobby."
There are always going to be names for the hobbies that people find attractive. Gamer is a natural fit for someone who spends a shitload of time with games, reading about the industry, Collecting the systems, games, and collectibles of your favorite games, playing the shit out of them for thousands of hours, whatever the case may be...
Do some people take it to the extreme and act annoying about the "gamer" culture? Sure. Doesn't mean saying you are a gamer is some sort of sub-human thing to do. I'm a fucking gamer. I play games, read about games, think about games, and want to make games some day. I think about games when I take a shit. I watch videos about games and people playing games. I have a game system in every room in the house. I read about games ALL day long. I dream about games. Gaming is my passion. I've never understood people being upset over someone liking something a lot.
Guess what? I'm a gun nut too. When someone really likes a hobby they get a unique title. It's written in the Bible.
I mean when someone sucks a lot of cock what do you call them? A cocksucker. They earned that title. Don't try to take it from them. Crni deserves his own title just like the rest of us.
I'm saying I don't identify with it, not that people shouldn't be allowed to call themselves like that. I did speak a bit too fast, and apologize if I've offended.
And while I concede that video games have nowhere near the monopoly of a hardcore fanbase, it just seems a more toxic one to me, and comes with a shitload of posturing. The whole ''who's a real gamer'' thing has been going on for sometime. Casual vs hardcore is even older. ''Real'' (game of genre X) vs the, I don't know, not-real (game of genre X). ''Real RPG'' in particular being thrown around a lot in some places. Many people seem to take it as some sort of badge of honor that elevates you above the drroling ''casual'' pleb, rather than just a statement of fact that video games are your hobby.
I don't see that level of vitriol in, say, book reading communities. I regularily visit Westeros.org, the main fansite for A Song of Ice and Fire, and while it has its own batch of self-important asses like everywhere else, it's overall much tamer compared to, say, the Bioware forums, not even going into hilariously unpleasant cesspools like RPG Codex or some subreddits. I frequent a website for people who run, and apart from the usual ''lol fatties'' imbecility from a handful of posters, it's very civil and understanding.
It just seems like a good deal of self-proclaimed gamers spend more time hating on games and/or people they don't like rather than discuss of the things they like.