Walpknut
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Moody and it almost feels like they are always on the defensive.
Do you find it hard to be social?
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Sergeant Politeness
Where'd That 6th Toe Come From?
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I'm in pretty much the same boat.
Sn1p3r187
Carolinian Shaolin Monk
Like.........? What you mean by defensive? They ain't like Mexican women are they?
Bubba Zanetti
I know what I'm doing
Thanks.
I agree he was gone too soon... I'll have to check out this Hicks documentary. That reminds me--I also really want to see Call Me Lucky, the documentary Bobcat Goldthwait put together on a lesser known comedian named Barry Crimmins.
Never heard of him before, but understood what he was about immediately as I can identify with his ordeal.
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Walpknut
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No idea how Mexican women are, altho this is mostly just generalziation of course you can't really say all of them are the same within a country, but Colombian women tend to be kind of agressive out of the bat, like they always assume you are hitting on them.
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I don't find being socialist hard at all. I mean, it's basically just this thing that rich people call me because they don't want to pay taxes.
AskWazzup
Sonny, I Watched the Vault Bein' Built!
Socializing is for pussies, i wish my overly social primate state would allow me to live alone on a mars base. Alas, evolution sucks - we have all this cool shit and we are still basically the same monkeys from 20 thousand years ago who have to huddle and kiss, and grope to feel better.
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When im fucking myself in the ass to Britney Spears videos when the school-bus comes by my section 8 derp facility full of degenerates, I say a prayer to satan thanking him that I'm not like all these people on NMA.
Eh that last part folded clumsily.
Pro-tip. The cleric does not live on a bus-route and hates Britney Spears.
Eh that last part folded clumsily.
Pro-tip. The cleric does not live on a bus-route and hates Britney Spears.
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Sn1p3r187
Carolinian Shaolin Monk
Which would be true in my case if I were trying to get with one.
Lol. I'd be the chill pill man
Sn1p3r187
Carolinian Shaolin Monk
Por que el burro? De todos animales.
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aenemic
Sonny, I Watched the Vault Bein' Built!
I have social anxiety disorder. Used to be much worse, now it's not all that bad. There are still situations I find very much discomforting. I don't like being around large groups of people for too long. I hate drawing attention to myself in crowds. I'm at my best in a small group. And I am in need of alone time frequently. That said, even if these problems have always been there for me, people tend to see me as a very social person who has an easy time making friends. And I guess I do, because I don't find it particularly hard to be social if I'm in the mood. I can talk to anyone, about anything. I like listening to people and I like telling people about myself. It's a bit funny that way. In many social situations I even think I do better than a lot of people without social anxiety. I think a lot of it doesn't have to do with the social situations themselves, but rather how you process things in your head. I'm outspoken and like meeting new people. But afterwards I worry, I get all these ideas that I acted a certain way, that people must think this or that about me and so on. Social anxiety is hard to explain.
Villejh
First time out of the vault
Good question. I'd have to say I'm a very social person, but at the same time extremely introvert. I very rarely go to bars or anywhere with lots of people around, but when I do, I talk to a lot of people and actively get to know them. I need a lot of time for myself, dedicated to music, games, writing and philosophical pondering.
The Vault Dweller
always looking for water.
I grew up being encouraged to spend as much time as possible studying and no one bothered to tell me to form social ties so I was very shy.
However working with lots of different and random people for many years not only took away my fear, but in fact it requires no effort at all to interact with people under normal circumstances.
I still prefer being alone though.
For those still worried just think of it this way. Decent people will judge you only by values like honesty, industriousness, etc. and won't mind if you're overly quiet. Besides once you accept this you'll lose the fear and won't need to feel shy.
Sincerely,
The Vault Dweller
However working with lots of different and random people for many years not only took away my fear, but in fact it requires no effort at all to interact with people under normal circumstances.
I still prefer being alone though.
For those still worried just think of it this way. Decent people will judge you only by values like honesty, industriousness, etc. and won't mind if you're overly quiet. Besides once you accept this you'll lose the fear and won't need to feel shy.
Sincerely,
The Vault Dweller
Huh, I wondered why that sounded familiar, then I realized just yesterday I told someone something similar, for a similar reason, he was awkward and not very social, and was worried about the impression others had of him because of this.
And it is what you say - people aren't really worried with shyness or anti-socialness, sure, it's not ideal, but people are typically more forgiving of such than the shy and awkward people fear.
As long as you're fair and decent, that is what people mainly remember about you, and your more awkward sides are just that - just odd characteristics that most people will "let slide".
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aenemic
Sonny, I Watched the Vault Bein' Built!
Well, I do wake up in the weirdest places without knowing where or who I am...
But seriously, I think I am you and a lot of other people. The older I get and the more people I get to know, the more I realize how common this is. Some handle it better than others, though. For me, I think some things happened over a long period of time that made everything worse and eventually I had to seek help. I'm happy to have done it though, because now I'm not afraid to tell people about it and I'm not ashamed of it. Most people are pretty damn understanding. Those that aren't, aren't worth the trouble.
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Well, I think your both cunts.
haha.
hahahaha.
Do I find it hard being social?
Fuck no. Most people do though, they get freaked the fuck out and don't have a sense of humor. Goddamn, words are too beautiful not to have them grace the curtains of smoked out rooms in a rainstorm.
Yet no one feels this way. I did this, and that, fuck you. Like I give a fuck about your stupid shit, tell me a lie if it will work better because this language shit you forgot the entire point of it and now it's been raped by people who need to do mathematics to kill people so it's exact shit but it doesn't have to be. Ya know? Like ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ. Stuff that down the gopher hole. No one really knows what anyone really means till after the fact. You just believe in the words they use cause you missed the fuckin point but you'll understand in time cause these words aren't gonna convince ya cause just to prove my point even if I was exact in what I was saying the outcome would have been the same.
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Do I find it hard being social?
Fuck no. Most people do though, they get freaked the fuck out and don't have a sense of humor. Goddamn, words are too beautiful not to have them grace the curtains of smoked out rooms in a rainstorm.
Yet no one feels this way. I did this, and that, fuck you. Like I give a fuck about your stupid shit, tell me a lie if it will work better because this language shit you forgot the entire point of it and now it's been raped by people who need to do mathematics to kill people so it's exact shit but it doesn't have to be. Ya know? Like ABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ. Stuff that down the gopher hole. No one really knows what anyone really means till after the fact. You just believe in the words they use cause you missed the fuckin point but you'll understand in time cause these words aren't gonna convince ya cause just to prove my point even if I was exact in what I was saying the outcome would have been the same.
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How many licks does it take to get to the center of an iceberg bee-bop shower doodle? Twenty nine and a couple of midgets for roadhead after the sandstorm on the way to Burgerking. Sheeeeyt. Why you like dubs so much cause now you goddamn almight sandworm see this shit. Possibly, indeed, indubitably. Cancer cures aids. I read that on the back of a cereal box on acid. But it was hard to figure it out, took me three years of studying the secret code that fuckin rabbit put in the symbolism.
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