You guys really need to lighten up. Hell, speaking of cult classics, I'm a huge fan of the Nintendo RPG series called "Mother" and Nintendo has yet to release the first Mother game and translate the new, year old Mother 3. There's a guarantee that Nintendo will make money off the games, no doubt. There's no risk involved, yet they don't do it. And it's been driving fans nuts. But most of the Mother/Earthbound fans I've seen aren't as spiteful as some of you guys turn out to be, and they've been waiting for a third game for THIRTEEN years.
But anyway, it's obvious that at this point Bethesda can do nothing to get you guys to give Fallout 3 a chance. So what's belly-aching and arguing going to do? Bethesda won't listen to you and they don't have to. I know, it'd be great if they took out the Fatman or made it more like Fallout 1 & 2, but it's just not happening.
All in all, life is too short to be pissed off all the time. Calm down, perhaps play your nearest and dearest Fallout 1 & 2 in different ways, or hell, make your own Fallout 3 if you think you can mod stuff. Try to get ahold of the Van Buren source code