sorry but what you describe sounds a lot like a strawman argument in my eyes.
I wasnt asking for the feeling regarding pools if we ever would get in to a debate about pool restrictions we might talk about that. I was more thinking about the feelings regarding guns. If you have children (which I dont know) I would be surprised if you would - hypotheticaly speaking of course - bear the loss of them by explaining they did at least not died by the much more dangerous pools. I hope you see what my intention is. To at least try to get people about to imagine the situation for some minute from the "other side of the fence". It is always easy in arguments to take one side and just explain his own point but one should also be able to at least try to see the situation from a different angle. IT doesnt mean that one has to change his own oppinion. But it helps to not get in extrem thinking.
I do know that this is a very emotional approach. I dont think ANYONE would really take it lightly if he would loose his children, wife or anything. I guess the factor to die by car accident, or from something similar is as well a lot higher then compared to death in a war zone. But that makes war not less extreme or explains why people that have been die hard patriots and supporters before suddenly change their mind when the first flag comes home with the message about the child beeing killed as soldier somewhere. I know this is now a bit exagerated argumentation of course. But still emotions play a very important role when it comes to such a discussion and many enough see it as a cut in ther rights when it comes to firearms and many feel emiditaly like "attacked" personaly.
I wasnt asking for the feeling regarding pools if we ever would get in to a debate about pool restrictions we might talk about that. I was more thinking about the feelings regarding guns. If you have children (which I dont know) I would be surprised if you would - hypotheticaly speaking of course - bear the loss of them by explaining they did at least not died by the much more dangerous pools. I hope you see what my intention is. To at least try to get people about to imagine the situation for some minute from the "other side of the fence". It is always easy in arguments to take one side and just explain his own point but one should also be able to at least try to see the situation from a different angle. IT doesnt mean that one has to change his own oppinion. But it helps to not get in extrem thinking.
I do know that this is a very emotional approach. I dont think ANYONE would really take it lightly if he would loose his children, wife or anything. I guess the factor to die by car accident, or from something similar is as well a lot higher then compared to death in a war zone. But that makes war not less extreme or explains why people that have been die hard patriots and supporters before suddenly change their mind when the first flag comes home with the message about the child beeing killed as soldier somewhere. I know this is now a bit exagerated argumentation of course. But still emotions play a very important role when it comes to such a discussion and many enough see it as a cut in ther rights when it comes to firearms and many feel emiditaly like "attacked" personaly.