Black Angel
Grand Inquisitor of the Ordo Hereticus
I don't know if you actually trust that site, but according to Dr. Zakir Naik interpretation of some of the Hadith and verses in the Alquran in this article here, and I quote:I'm with Vergil on this, women treated as a mere property in moslem world is nothing new. Many clerics are actively supporting the doctrine that woman has no right to refuse sex in mariage, for instance. Not even while riding on back of a camel:
http://www.christianaction.org/news/2015/4/28/cleric-wives-must-give-sex-even-on-a-camel
And it's not like it's impossible for a man to understand his wife's refusal for sex and relent himself for her. Surely a husband and wife wouldn't truly unite under a marriage, unless they 100% love and trust one another? On top of that, a man and a woman who were meant for each other, did so because they love and trust one another because of their Creator, and because the Creator chose them for one another according to Islam. You might not know nor understand that, but that's how it is in Islam.From all the above mentioned Ahadith, it is Wajib upon the wife to fulfill the desire of her husband whenever he wishes. If the relationship between the husband and the wife is truly based on Islamic principles, in which both of them treat each other with love, affection, kindness, fulfilling all Islamic desires and settling all matters with mutual agreement and understanding, the question of the wife refusing the sexual desire of the husband does not arise. Nor does the question arise of the husband being insistent or getting perturbed at her not wanting to have sex.
Islam and woman had a good history. It was Islam that freed woman from a shackle that binds them in the time before Islam. Back at the time of Pagan Arabs, men were ashamed to have a daughter, that they would kill and/or bury one when a baby girl was born. If they were ashamed but couldn't muster a courage to kill/bury her, they would raise her as a slave, worse yet sex slave. The only ones who could grew up as a women AND treated properly like human beings were those lucky enough to be born to a man not ashamed to raise a daughter, and mostly because the man was honorable, as evidenced by Siti Khadijah. It was changed by the arrival of Islam, as men were imposed heavy burden when they happen to have a daughter, the responsibility becomes heavier than that of raising a boy.
I can't speak for women in the other countries other than mine, but in my country women were treated fairly well, even outnumbering men in Chemistry Department here in my Uni, and my country is well known as the country populated by the biggest percentage of Muslim.