I wish I could just say "we were outplayed and deserved to lose to a beautiful playing side", and I'm sure some pundits would have it that way, but it's not the case. This was a shitty, ugly game, mostly from the Dutch side but I can only be amused at the way a blind eye is turned on ugly play from the Spanish side. Neither side really deserved to win (tho' "deserving" to win is an asinine concept, if you won you deserved to win), but obviously one side has to win. So it's the Spanish? Eh, that's how it goes.
They had just a tiny bit more luck with the refereeing decisions
I don't think that's really relevant, who had more luck with what. What is relevant is that Howard Webb was easily the most important man on the field, and single-handedly determined the way the game progressed. Something that, by his own standards, should never happen to a top ref.
And it doesn't help when he's that mistake-prone. De Jong should have never stayed on the field. Iniesta should not have been on the field either, after kicking at van Bommel. Neither of Heitinga's fouls was worth a red card. It was not a goal kick but a corner prior to the score. The most hilarious might be the yellow card on van der Wiel when he did not even physically touch his opponent. That's quite a lot of influence from a ref.
Shame, but it's not his fault that it was such an ugly game.
The Dutch deconstructed the Spanish "beautiful" football more effectively than most sides this World Cup, and the Spanish continued their incredible streak to become the worst finishers ever to win a World Cup. They also got clearly frustrated at being forechecked as they were, they did not outplay the Dutch offensively, at all. Defensively perhaps.
Fuck it. It's only fitting. A sloppy, amateur-league 3rd-place match and a brutal, shitty, foul-filled Finals. Possibly the worst World Cup Finals of all time, to finish what might well be the worst World Cup of all time. Only fitting.
I'd rather have lost a beautiful final game to a team that plays creative, fast football than this shite tho.