I feel a BIT the same regarding phones, although perhaps a touch "less extreme". The sentiment kinda relates to the tale about skaters, I feel. When I was a kid, it was certain doom when your teenage daughter hit 13, because then she'd be tying up the phone at all times. Sure enough, my sister got into that habit when she hit that age. It was just a thing of the times. When I was in high school, it was still only growing in popularity that non-adults would HAVE cellphones, let alone own their own, and have individual plans, etc, so my not having one wasn't somehow "uncool" of me. Then, a few years later, while I made my daily bike trip to and from my college for classes, and I'd pass by my old junior high, the kids would be walking home, with cellphones glued to their ears. They were calling their parents, or each other, or texting away about whatever they wanted. *I* still didn't have a cell, at this point, and I was in my early 20s! I had the profound urge to grab each and every one of them, and smash them on the ground. I felt like it was wrong for parents to need a call from their kids to know when to come pick them up, or that their kids even had the OPTION of telling them "Yeah I'm not coming home from school first". At their age, my parents knew where I was gonna be at what time of the day, and if I came home late, I had some explaining to do.
Nowadays, I have my own cell, but it's a piece of junk. It's no iPhone, or even a Blackberry, just some flip phone from 5 years ago. I do WANT an iPhone, just like I feel like I should have a cellphone. Not because I wanna glue myself to it, not talk to friends or anyone else when I'm out and about, and somehow maintain my already-too-reclusive nature when I'm NOT staying at home. Rather, I know it's a way to reach information, faster. It's a very important resource, if you use it wisely, and don't become dependent on it. That's what I think is the major difference between me and most, and why seeing all those "kids" on their phones disgusts me; they appear totally reliant on them, to me. We didn't have cellphones or the internet or Twitter or a myriad of the services as nowadays when I was younger. But many of the things we have now, I recognize the important utility of. But I was to USE it, not be used BY it.
It was really cool when I was out with a friend, and while I described to him the latest episode of DBZ Abridged to him, he was able to look it up on his iPhone and play it while he drove. That was something I couldn't do with my cellphone limitations. But I could still describe it, and we still laughed talking together about it. There's a middle ground for everything, I suppose, where the old aren't just cranky because they weren't spoiled, and the young aren't so clueless because they lack self-reliance. I SHOULD have a cellphone, but not because everyone else does; it has an important use. If something happens to those I love, I wanna be instantly reachable in a heartbeat, and I'd tell my bosses at work this. I won't shut my phone off, because I refused to cut myself off from any possible emergencies, but if anyone was to call me without any such urgency, I'd tell them not to, because I'm at work. That was always respected.