I haven't seen much of a prejudice against NMA unless I look in places like Reddit's r/games or GameSpot forums, who tend to be very toxic no matter what game is involved, so those don't really affect my opinion. Neither have I seen any intense, uninformed "Bethesdrone" who willingly defends even the most egregious of Bethesda's mishaps. Maybe I'm just looking in different places, then??
Speaking of which, check out what the nice folks at Reddit have been saying about the forum:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Fallout/comments/38us5y/no_mutants_allowed_is_the_most_depressing_forum/
Even when they brush the truth, they're still off.
"Some will give some leeway to Fallout NV, but for many not even that measures up."
It's been my perception that almost everyone here was satisfied by NV. I was.
"Bethesda is all about the setting and giving you as much agency as humanly possible"
That's a good one.
I'm not... seeing a diversion between that post and the point I'm making. Most of the sayings on there simply label this site as toxic while a lot of it agree with your criticisms of both Fallout and TES.
And yes, this site does appear toxic. Like I said, your mature and indepth arguments are overshadowed by the strong words you use. I'll give you an example (no specific game) below of what I, and most would consider, toxic and offputting:
"[Game] had decent and responsive gameplay. Unfortunately, it fails to make up for the incoherent and baseless narrative, which detracted from literally all points of the game. It's literally why I could not stand [Game], and it's a clear sign of laziness and an absolute waste of the potential the introduction to [Game] set up. Try again next time, [Company Name]."
Those words above? They're considered aggressive and insulting, no matter what game it is being mentioned by what community. A lot of the members here overestimate the social tolerance of people on the Internet. Even if it was true and the theoretical [Game] mentioned above had an incoherent narrative, not sugaring your words can make you seem full of hatred. Trust me on this, I'm not referring to a Fallout game. It's just to any game in general.
I'm not saying you're wrong in how you talk. I'm just saying that talking that way is bound to raise some bad reputations. I was put off by nearly every post on Fallout I found on this site when I first arrived -
even the ones I completely and utterly agree with.
I think a lot of the prejudice against NMA, and even the Codex, to some extent is derived mainly from a lack of willingness to accept that others share different opinions and insights. As you can see here from this thread, no one is flaming you for your opinion. Rarely, do I see that here. On the codex, someone might insult you, but people play a lot over there too. If you don't have thick skin, then you may be offended.
I think what this forum constitutes as thick skin is far beyond what should be expected of anyone on the Internet.