I fall into that neutral catagory as well, and I neither love nor hate this game at this moment in time. I dislike mindless bashing as much as I dislike mindless over hype. That being said, I agree with many of the comments when related to the movement/animations, and this is where my main issues lie with FO3. It was the first thing I noticed even after having next to no experience with Oblivion, and all I had to do was see ONE gameplay trailer. The camera is also a big issue, especially in 3rd person. They just are behind the times. I could see much the same things in a Deus Ex game.
Now when it comes to depth, gameplay, etc. I haven't personally seen anything else that's completely turned me off. Of course there are issues here and there, and some could turn out to be big after playing, but I will wait to judge once I have the disc in the drive and the controller in my hands.
Right now this game is hitting about a 3/5 in my eyes, but if depth is strong, and it's simply fun, then it will hit a 4/5. 5/5 would have come if they had taken the time to either correct their poor movement, camera and animation with something like mocap, or simply gotten a new team to handle the department. I'd much rather have smooth animation than bigger graphics. That can save many games with poor quality textures, etc. (just look at an old game Flashback or Out of This World) But, unfortunately, although this game is probably mid-range in graphical quality, even the best looking game will look stupid when everyone's moving like an animitron. I certainly wouldn't enjoy The Dark Knight if Batman was directed by Robby the Robot. Also, because it's not isometric, and instead in-your-face, (I do like POV though) it's hard to forgive any of it.
I'm still looking forward to this game, but it certainly deserves some criticism.
@Casual Gamer: Also, not to be rude, but I think that last comment was a little unfair. We should be far past the times when silly issues like Genma described would be taking place. If we aren't, then something is wrong. Let's not take everyone 5-10 years into the past just so we can explain issues with Oblivion, Fallout 3 or any game for that matter. It needs to compete with the present. Sorry if I misunderstood though.