I am starting to see why a lot of mod markers put FAQs saying that they don't care about your immersion or if you don't like their mod then don't play it and fuck off.
I can only speak for myself here, but it for me got worse the more "Nexus fame" I got, which used to mean something to me, now I don't care. My smaller mods would have never put me in a place like this, but when you get around half a million downloads, the more people that think they are "helping" pop out of the wood work.
Imagine in your day to day life, you decide to make a cake, think it tastes good and share it with anyone that want to try it. Of the 10,000 people that try it, you have 10 people that say it's awesome and 10 that say it sucks.
Change the number to 500,000 people trying it and you will get 100 people telling you you should have used a different icing, 50 people saying it sucks and they can't eat it. 20 people telling you it isn't a cake at all and 20 people saying it tastes good. 50 people ask for a vanilla variant, 100 people ask for a walk through on how to eat it, 30 people say the icing is falling off and 200 ask you to port it to SSE, the list goes on.
It's the multitude that kills the spirit. Even if the words don't annoy you the shear amount of regurgitation, people never reading FAQs or even asking one question you've answered 80 times. It gets to be a bit too much and starts feeling like a job, one that doesn't pay.
That's why when a user feels the need to comment, I put equal effort into helping them. If they don't read what I wrote, I won't write back, if they show me tude, I give them tude back. If they're an asshat, I'll ban them. All the while no fucks are given. I don't try to be a jerk, but being popular isn't a good thing. If people were nicer it would be cool, but most people are selfish and entitled.