Hello Neal,
I would rather call it a willingness to accept anything.
I have no doubt that these people are really fans of Fallout and that they like so many not on the board really want a new Fallout game so they can explore the wastes again and have adventures.
But we don't have to accept everything, we should be allowed to be critical and say when we don't like something.
Does that mean we hate Bethesda and its people? I have nothing personal against Tod Howard and his people, I simply think he doesn't understand Fallout despite that he says so, and I don't like the route of development they have taken.
I can't say developers always have to listen to their fans or follow all of their wishes, but just by taking notice of what they would like to see and try to keep that in mind when you develop something is a good first step.
You might not always get it correct but you do try.
The FO3 group is primarely interested in creating their own vision of the concept and attract the gamers who were never interested in the first two games because it has a gameplay they didn't like.