If you're insinuating I'm the king of jargon, I don't get it.
In all sincerity, however, how does it make intellectual discussion or interpersonal equality or "closeness" better for someone to be objectionable towards faith? I've tried to hold the most civil discourses with outspoken atheists with the most understated motives as physically possible. All I wanted were stimulating debate, I wasn't trying to tell them they're wrong, I was curious about their perspective. I'd go as far as to let them tell me what I believe, let them control the conversation, just so we could converse, and I've yet to have a satisfying discussion with any of them. It ALWAYS came down to if I'm not against faith, I'm an idiot. I'm inferior to them, because I don't agree with them. I don't agree with them, because I'm asking questions. 100% of the time. And they know this for a fact, of course!
Self-described agnostics, on the other hand, I've had a wealth of intelligent discussions with. One described herself as looking to the sun as the closest thing to a deity, and it wasn't that one thing she said, but the totality of our conversations that I found fascinating and, most of all, intellectually stimulating. I sometimes joke with one of my cousins for "coming out" as an agnostic, because their parents are traditional Eastern Orthodox Christians, and it might break their hearts to learn this, but in fact they quietly accepted it as they love their child most of all, so for my own amusement I've since moved on to joking with them about their inability to cook a decent meal despite those same parents once owning a restaurant... XD But people who openly state "I don't know" always strike me as the far more reasonable sorts than any others. The ones who look at terrible things done in the name of religion and use that to say ALL religion is universally x because x was done in the name of a religion just strikes me as an intellectual tragedy. That's not necessarily regressive or oppressive but it is stagnant thinking. But those who say they KNOW this or they KNOW that rub me the wrong way.
I see no difference between those who say they know there's no God and those who say they know they're going to heaven. Same level of empty-headed bigotry, to me.