The thing is that often the discussion steers in a direction that creates a sort of equivalancy between Russia and the NATO (The United States in particular) which is in my opinion a bit of a problem. Which does not mean that one can not criticise US and Euro Imperialism. I protested against the war Irak and I was very glad that Germany and a few others decided not to participate. I was also always critical about Afghanistan and the war there. I always feel that we're doing more to support international terrroism and particularly radical islamist groups rather than actually fighting against them. Geopolitics is a really fucked thing. No doubts about it.
But I am not sure how much it helps the current situation really to say "Russia made it clear that tensions would stay at ease as long as their bordering countries didn't join NATO.". Particularly when you consider that somewhere in the 1990s Putin himself said, he has zero issues with nations joining NATO, because every nation has of course the right to chose their own allies as a souvereign entity. Same as some nations (Belaruss and a few others) chose to be friends with Russia and become part of their sphere of influence. Why is that often kinda glanced over for some reason? Russia also agreed in the early 1990s that it would never, ever threaten Ukraines souvereignity and borders. Which was one of the conditions for Ukraine giving up the post-soviet nuclear arsenal they still had on their territory.
If we really want to talk about the history and the events which lead to this whole crisis and war, sure. Let us do that. But then we have to be honest and do a correct analysis. As much as there have been what some consider provocations there have also been open discussions, diplomacy and chances. Normandy Format, G20, G8 and many more. For fucks sake, no EU country was economically tied as closeley to Russia like Germany, except for Hungary maybe. If the goal of all the western powers was to provoke and "defeat" Russia, then I don't know why so many EU members willingly gave up parts of their infrastructure to Russia and opening their economy to their oligarchs.
I mean there are many open qustions regarding Ukraine and all the things that happend over the last 30 years. And neither the EU nor the United States are without blame. That much is for sure. But it could be also possible that a large part of Ukraine simply didn't feel safe from Russia. Like not at all. So maybe there was a genuene process of democratisation and preferences for Europe and NATO. Just as how the Baltic States chose it.
Not trying to get in a fight here or something. Just saying. I am one of the biggest "NATO" critics around here - I think. But despite all criticism and history, the cards have been played. The beds have been made. And at the end of the Putin is worse than NATO.